In: Psychology
What messages did you learn about the comparative value of working with your hands (farming, trucking, carpentry, house cleaning), service work (practicing cosmetology, cashiering, waiting tables), or business or professional work (working as a programmer, teacher, nurse, business owner)? What are your thoughts now about these various kinds of work?
What did you learn as a child or teenager about what success meant and why some people are successful and some are not? Where did you learn those ideas?
If you or your family ever received public assistance, what was that like for you? If not, what messages did you receive from your family and teachers about people who did receive public assistance?
What did you learn in your childhood about people asking for help? Was this seen as a defeat or shameful act? Was this seen as an appropriate strategy to manage? Did it make any difference from whom one asked for help?
Work is considered to be workship in which people who engaged whole heartedly. Working with hand , mind and heart is divine, the above mentioned work with hand, service work and business or professional work all are considered to be the highest, these three kind of work meets every corner of life. All these works are appreciatable. People who works with hand are comes first and the service people who takes part to reach the product to the needy through their hospitality. Business makes prosper the economy.
Every minute thing matters in this today's world. We people notice everything when we get into a super market, their service matters most because that counts customers to retain in their business.
Everyone's childhood is different but we used to hear one advice or point amongst all the rest was "no cheating", doing things genuinely makes a way towards success.
When someone ask help, I feel great if I could make it, that brings a sort of happiness in me. If couldn't do it I would make me feel disturbed for sometimes. And most importantly we shouldn't expect anything return for what you have done to others. It's means as a help or any favour.