Question

What impact do fathers have during and after the birth of the baby? How do fathers experience the pregnancy? What are signs of postpartum depression and how can the father assist the mother?

Answer 1

• Researchers tested the hormone levels of first-time fathers-to-be and found that their testosterone dropped as the baby grew. There's some evidence that some men gain weight along with their pregnant partners, which could definitely influence their hormone levels.Slightly lower levels of testosterone have been associated with higher relationship satisfaction and more sensitive parenting.
• Infants whose fathers were absent— and had no involvement in the pregnancy— were more likely to be born with lower birth weight and to be born prematurely. The death rate of infants whose fathers were not around was nearly four times that of infants whose fathers were involved.And many maternal complications that could affect the infants— such as anemia, high blood pressure, and more serious ailments— were more prevalent among women whose children’s fathers were absent.
• A man may also feel overwhelmed and stressed about providing for his new family, both financially and emotionally, as he tries to give her support during pregnancy, childbirth and new motherhood.
  
• Many men enjoy the opportunity to have a concrete task to complete along with supporting mom emotionally. But some feel resentful about having more responsibilities when they may already be stressed about finances and time.
• Feeling upset once in a while is normal,having crying spells, or when mothers often feel unhappy about being a parent, or they often "down on yourself" as a mom, these may be among the first signs of postpartum depression,losing interest in things once the mother enjoyed,insonmia,loss of appetite,mood swings,intense irritability,not being able to bond with the baby,lack of concentration,fatigue etc.
• Strong emotional support is needed by the father to help the mother overcome postpartum depression,assisting them in taking of the care of the baby,telling them they are doing good,telling her its ok to make mistakes,help her around the house,accompany her to doctor's appointments,making oneself aware about PPD,make a list, together, of the things that may provide an outlet for her so you can both refer to it when she needs a break,encourage her to get as much rest possible and just be with her through everything.