Question

In your own words, discuss the notion of “staying together for the kids.” Is this really preferable to divorce? When is divorce warranted?

Answer 1

There are times when the relationship between parents is on the rocks yet they decide to stay together for the kids. In such a scenario, living together when there is no love, intimacy and passion between the couple is not good for the mental health of kids. When the situation between parents is not good and there are no chances of reconciliation, in that case divorce should be opted by the parents. Regular fights and arguments between the fighting parents and being observed by children are not healthy for their mental health. Living in families where parents are abusive towards each other has a big time negative impact on health, happiness and well-being of kids. Such children grow up to becoming adults who either do the same thing with their spouses or develop anxiety, depression or any negative emotions that threaten their well-being. Therefore, in my opinion, staying together is not healthy but separating from each other and meeting kids at regular intervals and spending quality time with them is beneficial for healthy functioning.