In: Psychology
does cohabitation before marriage increase the likelihood of staying together?
Cohabitation before marriage refers to the couple living
together as a "trial period" of their marriage. Studies have been
conducted and have shown different results. Some studies say that
cohabitation before marriage increases the likelihood of a divorce
because it almost seems that a person is being indirectly forced
into the marriage. Also, it becomes harder to leave the relation
even if they think they are with an incompatible partner, because
they have already invested so much into the relation. Seeing these
factors, once the couple do get married, they aren't able to hold
onto the marriage anymore and get divorced.
However, studies conducted on the gender and cultural
differences have shown that women are more likely to be in
cohabitual relationships and see to it as a precursor to marriage,
whereas men seem to be less invested in it. Different cultures have
also shown different results.
Thus, in the end it is difficult to say whether
cohabitation increases the likelihood of staying together or
increases the chance of a divorce because a lot of subjective
factors are taken into consideration. At the end, it depends on the
individual couple and their needs and an analysis of where they are
in their relationship before they take up the decision.