In: Psychology
One part of the dating service would be to help insecured people with a partner whose style can help them feel better about themselves. Here style refers to the attachment style. I would give them a survey upon account creation to identify their style of attachment. Based on the results for insecured people, suggestions of partners who have the characteristics are given-
1)securely attached
2) effective communicator
3)appreciative
4)good fit and
5) One, who is ready for relationship.
Rather than allowing the user to get swept away by the initial excitement of meeting someone new, I would make the user to objectively focus on the attributes of the suggested partners and then make a conscious decision about choosing the partner.
This is built in the understanding that not only the relationship but the initial process and the partner themself can help people who suffer from insecurity, to deal with their emotions.