Question

Love Language Project Part I
Objective:
To demonstrate the principles of love languages and effective use of interpersonal communication skills through “gifting” a close interpersonal relationship.
Assignment:
Please research the 5 Love Languages. Set a time when you can interview your selected person, at least ½ hour. Choose a quiet, comfortable environment where you will be able to listen effectively. The goal of your interview is to learn how your selected person most likes to receive expressions of affection.
You might begin by sharing the five love languages with them and asking some versions of the following questions:
1. Based on the descriptions in this section and this piece, which of the five love languages is most appealing to you to receive?
2. Can you share a story/example of a time when you received affection this way?
3. Which is the most challenging/uncomfortable love language for you to receive?
4. Can you share a story/example of a time when you received affection this way?
5. What changes do you think you could make in the way you receive affectionate messages in your close relationships?

Please describe the person that you chose to interview and your relationship with them. Then, post their responses to the questions

Love Language Project Part II

Write a personal reflection paper, at least 1.5 pages long, double spaced, typed, include the following:
1. What did you learn about your selected person and their preferred love languages from your interview? What was challenging about the interview? What surprised you?
2. How does their preferred love languages differ from yours? Did this make it difficult to plan your special event?
3. Comment on planning your Love Language Event. How did you come up with your ideas? What was easy and what was challenging?
4. Comment on implementing your Love Language Event. What was enjoyable? What was challenging? Did it go as you’d planned?
5. Comment on the Love Language Project in general. What did you learn? About the other person? About yourself?
6. How might what you learned during this Love Language Project affect your expressions of affection in other relationships?

Answer 1

5 Love languages are:

1. words of affirmation ( compliments, words of encouragement, a gushy text, a heartfelt email)
2. quality time ( giving someone your undivided attention)
3. receiving gifts( making someone a homemade card, giving presents like flowers or tickets)
4. acts of service( doing the washing the, walking the dog, life admin)
5. physical touch( having sex, kissing, holding hands, cuddles)

Assignment 1:

Love Language Project-I

1. The most appealing love language I liked most is spending quality time. Time is the most valuable thing which we can get from somebody because it is the only gift which again we can never return. If someone is having attention to us and spending their valuable time with us is the most affectionate time we can have with them and spend very happily jovial with the partners.
2. I have an example in the form of a story to tell how my partner used to spend his valuable time with me. He is a very busy person. He works almost 16 hours a day and he will not get much time to spend with me but many times he makes time for me and spends his valuable time with me. one day his boss gave him some important work to complete within 2 hours and submit the work and leave the office. it was my birthday where I was waiting in the restaurant to have dinner. he had a high risk time to attend the work and to attend the dinner with me, but he requested his boss explaining him how much I am important to him and took permission for four hours for the submission of the work and he came to the restaurant to spend time with me that is one of the memorable day for me.
3. The most uncomfortable love language I don't like is physical touch. I never expect that only physical touch will show that the two lovers will have affection only if they have the physical touch.
4. I have an example to explain this with a story where my lover once asked me to give him a kiss as a sign of love. I rejected giving him the same explanation telling him that physical touch is not important between the lovers and giving a kiss is not only to express the love. my lover understood me and from that day onwards can never ask this kind of action from me.
5. According to me Love languages are very important in order to maintain a good and close relationship between the lovers, spending time, giving gifts words of affirmation will be good to maintain good relationship, a good support and help in all the situations and and understanding between each other and making the other partner comfortable in all the situations is is good to maintain close and good relationships.

Assignment 2:

Love Language Project-2

1. From the interview what I learned from the partner is his most preferable love language was to have physical touch. I was surprised to hear that from him because according to me physical touch is something which should not be given much importance in close relationships and that is given least priority. but my partner was explaining that physical touch is the only way we can express that we have love and the relationship will become strong when we have the physical touch. The physical touch will make both get one and United so he tries to explain that physical touch is very important to maintain a close relationship.
2.   They were totally different from my way of thinking on love languages. they give importance to the Physical touch where I was totally against for the physical touch. I give importance in spending time and giving some gifts to the partner and sometimes giving compliments by sending heartfelt email. we had a plan to go for a picnic for 2 days, but when I came to know that it the other person give importance to Physical touch more I could not there enough to go to the picnic with him because I felt he is not the right person and I I may be in risk so I have postpone my plan of going to the picnic.
3. I explained to my partner about our picnic and I was not willing to come for the picnic because of his intention on the relationships. It was challenging for me to make him agree with my point of view .He didn't support me or encourage me in this aspect, with a lot of difficulty I tried to convince him and I postponed the picnic. The easy task was he agreed to come with me along with my friends.
4. Is it a lot of difficulty? I made him agree to come to the picnic along with my friends. at first he didn't agree and he argued a lot because that was the first picnic where we as lovers were going. as I I planned we went for a picnic along with my friends and it was the most enjoyable day, and on the other side it was challenging also because my partner was little bit uncomfortable with my friends, but as the time passed he also became a good friend of my friends and the rest of the day all of us enjoyed very happily. the plan went accordingly as I had planned.
5. Love languages are important to maintaining good relationships When we start spending valuable time giving some precious gifts which will be a lifelong memorable things for the lovers and at the same time speaking some positive words like giving positive compliments about their dress their goals their family and when we get some kind of encouragement and motivation in our life then the love relationship will maintained for a long run. Generally people will be different in their thoughts and behaviour individually which differ from one person to another person, the only thing is when we are able to understand each other and try to convince each other then the relationship will be long lasting.
6. The affection between two lovers will not depend only on these five love languages that we are speaking, it is something very broad where we cannot Express some in the words. The affection and the caring of the lovers will be understood only by the people who are experiencing that and their relationships with what they are maintaining.