INTERPRETING THE REAL LIFE STORY: Diego’s Experience
My fitness and wellness class motivated me to try to quit
smoking, again! It wasn’t anything new, because I had tried several
times before. I had my first cigarette when I was sixteen and I
have now smoked for 10 years. I have tried to quit for the last
five years. But during this time, the longest I ever went without a
cigarette was about three months. When we did the chapter on
behavior change, I started paying attention and taking all kinds of
notes. Since it talked about lots of different things to help
someone make a change, I figured I could try one at a time until I
found whatever worked. I can tell you some things that didn’t work.
When I announced to all my friends that I was quitting, they ended
up making fun of me because I’d tried to quit so many times before.
And then when they saw me light up again, they made fun of me even
worse. I know they thought they were being funny, but it really
made me feel discouraged. I think that telling people you are
quitting could work, if you had different friends than the guys I
hang out with. What finally worked for me almost two years after I
finished the class was a combination of things. I set a SMART goal.
I worked on my environment to avoid situations that made me want to
smoke. Often when I wanted to smoke, I went for a jog, played
sports, or went to the library to get rid of the craving. Even
though it took me a really long time, I credit my success to that
moment back in that class when I decided that I would try every
method, and keep on trying, until something worked. Before, I was
ashamed at how many times I had tried and failed to quit. But now,
I’m proud of my accomplishment because I think most other people
would have just given up. I have been smoke-free for two
years.
Critical Thinking Questions
1. What are some reasons why it was good for Diego to try to
give up smoking?
2. Quitting smoking is a very difficult behavior change to
make. If you needed to make such a change to your own addictive
behavior, what methods would you use to increase your chances of
success?
3. How do you think the process of writing a SMART goal and
tracking your progress might contribute to your success in
achieving that goal?