Gender is how a person identifies oneself regardless of
his/her biological sex. Thereby referring to the state of being
male or female. It also refers to the social roles, values,
behaviors and traits that are expected from men or women. This
further leads to the terms masculine or feminine- traits associated
with being a girl or buy, man or woman.
Gender Stereotyping is the generalization based on
gender roles, differences, and attributes of individuals or groups.
Stereotypes can be both positive or negative, however, in gender,
they mostly are negative and people generally assume on various
dimensions, mostly without true accurate information.
The different types of gender stereotypes in men and women
maybe-
WOMAN
- Social aspect- typical female stereotype across
cultures is expecting a woman to marry and have children.
Furthermore, always put others/ family's needs, and welfare before
her own, and think about everyone else but herself. Although, with
many movements and advancement, cultures have accepted women to
work and indulge in occupations, typically, women are the-
homemakers. They are supposed to look after their children, their
in-laws, parents, clean the house, and manage all house chores.
Even otherwise, some common fields of occupations women are
expected to be a part of include being- teachers, nurses, designers
etc.
- Physical aspect- women are portrayed or expected to be
attractive, beautiful, thin, graceful. They are expected to wear
clothes or dress up according to what is considered normal by the
society, like dresses, makeup etc. Even after all these types of
assumptions, if a woman dresses too boldly, again she is
criticized.
- Sexual aspect- women are portrayed wearing short,
provocative clothes, shown to seduce men by their body, or their
seductive, flirtatious behavior. In many cultures, they are
expected to be sexually inexperienced. Many people displease if a
woman has many male friends, or has been in many relationships.
Women are represented as sexual objects and domineering.
- Personality- women are described to be emotional,
calm, understanding, passive, dependent, naive, nurturing,
accepting, adjustable, compromising, timid, shy, adhering,
multi-tasking and many more.
MAN
- Social aspect- they are considered the providers,
taking care of the financial work, and are associated with all
outside-the-house chores. They are shown to engage in physical
violence and more indulgent in substance abuse. The common notion -
boys don't cry, or men enjoy outdoor activities and many others.
Men are mostly expected to be a part of occupations such as-
pilots, doctors, engineers. They are rarely favored as cooks,
nurses, or into the makeup line.
- Physical aspect- men are expected to be tall, strong
and muscular and handsome. They are supposed to dress
appropriately, wear pants, have short hair. Even though today, many
boys grow their hair, or get waxed, or use makeup, the society
criticizes them regardless of modernization.
- Sexual aspect- men are shown dominant, in-control,
sexually experienced and physically imposing. Men are usually
boastful about the number of relationships they have been in, or
how their sexual life is.
- Personality- men are shown to be confident, bold,
aggressive, lazy, messy, unorganized. They are supposedly less
emotional, and don't have as many feelings as women do.
Our culture has a huge role in forming stereotypes, and they are
not necessarily true. Gender stereotypes are over exaggerated,
which leads to many cases of violence and discrimination in
domestic or occupational lives. Hyper-masculinity leads to
physical, mental and emotional abuse on their partners. Stereotypes
do more harm than good, and the cycle continues as a child is born
and reared up having to confirm to the norms and judgement passed
on by the society and culture. Everyone should use their own
strategy to conform to the right form of judgement and discard off
stereotypes.