In: Psychology
Identify a few smaller goals. How will you celebrate achieving these goals?
Think about your existing relationships and support system. How can they best support you while you are in school? How/when will you communicate your needs to them?
There are few goals which I want to achieve. Like a job with the salary that is enough for me. I want to purchase a bike and a house with my earned money.
When I achieve these things, firstly I prefer to celebrate this with my family. I will let my parents to come with me to a beautiful place and I will give a treat then I give some surprises to my parents and sister. That is the celebration for me. Then some one special in my life that is my best friend, I will give a gift to him because he also support me in my bad times. I celebrate my achievements with only these persons who is close to me. Those smile makes me happy.
When I was in 10+2 (inter), I was very upset because of my exams. I think that all have hopes of me and If i can't able to fulfill their hopes, what will happen. But when my mom and sister know about that I am in tension then they give me support that no need to worry, you will do great in exams and if you will not get good marks, there is no issue. You only concentrate in your studies. Don't get upset for the result. We will not judge you because we know, you give your best.
Whenever I need my parents, I communicate directly to them. Because I am very comfortable with them to talk about anything, to talk about my problems and whenever I need them.
If I need something, I say them that I need this. Sometimes they deny to fulfill my need then I approach them to tell about whhy I need this. So, when they find login in my words, they fulfill it.
Some times, I need them emotionally. So, I take about my problem and tell thm why an I upset. They understand me and try to makes me feel good.