Question

Very detailed please explain how and why secure attachment affects an individuals emotional development

Give examples

Answer 1

There are many ways in which secure attachment helps in emotional development of a person. Secure attachment comes in the form of love, care,trust, good conversation, smile, giving appropriate positive and negative reeinforcements. Today lot of people talk criminals, or thefts or any terrorist organizations. What was lacking, what made them exactly go or to do such crimes it was only lack of love or secure attachments. Why do marraiges break? the answer is the same as above.

For e.g. if a child feels secure by his parents or by his family then would be well developed emotionally. He would be able to express or control his emotions at right point. Because the child knows that there is somebody to whom he can confess his mistakes, there is somebody who is always tehre for him. Secure attachment makes a perfect gateway to express things, a person - a chil or a spouse is not afraid to express the mistakes, there is no reason to hide which make the relationship more stronger and the person is well developed emotionally.

Secure attachment also brings peace in mind, there is some kind of satisfaction in the relationship, if a person is emotionaly well satisfied then he can be happy or may have positive attitude no matter what situation he comes across.