In: Psychology
SAMPLE INTERVIEW QUESTIONS
You might want to give your subject a set of questions in advance to help them prepare for the interview, and perhaps locate some memento, album, scrapbook or photographs to enhance their responses. Also it would be great if a family member would be willing to accompany you to “the old neighborhood” to see a former home, old schools, or religious congregation, any landmarks of the community, a memorial site, or cemetery.
If at all possible, speak to a number of generations to get closer to and get a different perspective on the family’s immigrant experience. What happened to the original language? Why did some families become bi-lingual, and others only spoke English and the children were not proficient in the family’s original mother tongue. Has the family returned to visit the “old country”? Why or why not?
Some of the stories, obviously, will be handed down, told, and retold, often with great variation based on recollection, or based on which details seem most significant to them. Be sure to express your gratitude for their time, perspective, and insights.
It is so kind of you to help me and take this time to talk about our family of origin. Ready?
Thanks!!
1. I came from Nigeria for my further studies post my graduation there. Where I come from, life was mediocre in some ways as there were no set standards of doing things like how infrastructure should be developed, services should be catered, which was largely due to the political turmoi and corruption at that time. But there was also affluence for those who could afford it, like getting proper resources, amenities, partying with friends etc.
3. Religion played a somewhat balanced role in my family life. My mother was staunch catholic who would not miss any mass and would frequently go to church for anything. She had submitted to the idea of God completely and how he's determines destiny.
My father, on the other hand, did not specifically believe in it but he didn't stop my mother from doing what she wanted to. That way I had a little bit of both which let me have a balanced view
4. I remember going to church on Sundays with my family. In fact, my mother also encouraged me to get more involved in other activities of church like social services. It was mostly not pleasant because I'd see people who are corrupt and had attained their position in the country through illicit means yet they were revered even in church and during such programs only because they had money. I didn't like that at all especially the behavior of church authorities which irked me once and I expressed it without mincing. And I was not allowed there after that which I didn't mind
5. In the initial years, seeing the most advancement and developments has been a pleasant experience. The kind of services, quality of products, having access to everything first in the world is the best