Question

Week 8 - Incompatible to Irresistible After reading this week's material, how do you believe a couple that has become "incompatible" can return to "irresistable"? his needs her needs

Answer 1

Married couple become incompatible over a period of time because they are not able to meet the basic needs of each other. So, they try a different relationship and they experience the same problem there too. So, in order rectify this, the man and woman have to become irresistible to each other by fulfilling the five needs of each other.

What should the man do in order to become irresistible to the woman?

The first and foremost thing is showing unconditional affection. Secondly, engaging in conversation both silly and productive, third one is being honest and open by sharing things and not hiding any information from the spouse, fourth one is providing financial support by providing for her and the children and creating a life that would be secure and finally being committed to the family by engaging the kids and wife and spending time with them and taking part in all the important events of the family.

The woman can fulfil the following five needs of the man in order to become irresistible. Firstly, fulfilling the sexual need of the husband, so that they won’t look elsewhere, providing recreational companionship by going out with him, thirdly being physical attractive by grooming and exercising and becoming physically appealing, helping with the domestic works such as cooking, cleaning, gardening etc., and showering lots of appreciation and admiration on the husband.

Any relationship will become boring or monotonous if we don’t spice it up. So, rather than looking for a new relationship every time couples can plan to break the routine and understand the needs of the partner and fulfil them. Only this will sustain anyone’s marriage.