There’s no doubt about it - employers control the American
workplace. From deciding when you have to arrive to work, what you
have to wear, and when you must permanently leave, employers
dictate most things. That's why it’s important for employees to
take advantage of the few things they have a say in. Negotiating
your salary is one of those things.
You
have to see an increase in your salary as a cumulative benefit.
What seems like a minimal increase, or an amount “not worth
bringing up,” can end up being a substantial amount after a series
of pay periods. Better yet, an increase in pay serves as a basis
for all of the raises that come after. If you’re successful during
your first negotiation then it puts your boss on notice that you’re
going to expect more raises, and are capable of explaining and
convincing him/her as to why you deserve them.
So now
that we got the “why is it important to negotiate” out of the way,
now it’s time for some useful tips on how to successfully negotiate
your salary:
- Have a figure in mind. When you meet with your
employer, there are a lot of things that can come up, many of which
you can anticipate. First and foremost - have a number in mind. Not
having a set amount in mind leaves the door open for your employer
to control the conversation and adopt an amount that seems fair to
them. If you enter the room with a salary in mind then that can
limit how low your employer will go.
- Do a little research. This one ties into the
tip above. Not everyone has the luxury of looking up the salary
information of their employer on Glassdoor. For those that can
certainly do. A more reliable way of finding out the goods is to
ask fellow or past employees. Although most people avoid asking
their coworkers how much they earn, it’s okay to ask your colleague
(depending on the relationship) how often and what percentage
raised they have received.
- Barter a bit. It’s okay to be creative when it
comes to salary talks. One way of doing so is offering to give
something up. If you went on three vacations this year then why not
offer to give up your vaca days for the following year? Okay, maybe
that’s a little unrealistic but there may be some fringe benefits
you’re receiving now that you wouldn’t mind giving up for a boost
in pay. You could always offer to put in more hours if it gets to
that point as well.
- Practice, practice, practice. Definitely the
most obvious tip, but one that is often neglected. Although it’s
difficult to get on-demand experience negotiating a salary, there
are practical ways to develop the skills you need. My favorite are
thrift shops and sidewalk sales. Have a little fun with it too. If
the funky lamp that you like is $10 in an antique store go up to
the counter and say you’ll take it for $1. Do the same thing at a
thrift shop and this time ask $5 for another $10 item. Reflect on
the impact that your starting price had on the final price and also
the differences in the way both clerks negotiated.
- Show them what they would be missing. Be
prepared to answer: why do you deserve this? Remember that you want
to have your key points down pat, but don’t rehearse so much that
you sound scripted - no one likes that. Bring up the strengths that
go beyond your work skills. If you provide comic relief at work
then it’s certainly appropriate to crack a joke or two during the
meeting.
- Take another bite at the apple. “Now is not a
good time for this” doesn’t have to end the conversation. At that
point you can try and prove to them that losing you would be a much
bigger problem for them than giving you a raise would. People
respect persistence so don’t shy away.
Lastly
- remember that the person on the other side of the table has been
in your shoes. Although asking for more money can be an
uncomfortable moment, keep in mind that everyone does it - even the
person before you. You shouldn’t feel apprehensive or embarrassed.
After all - there’s a limit on how much you can spend, but there’s
never a limit to how much you can earn.