In: Psychology
based on 7 thinking hats. Use a red hat to explore all the possible aspects of choosing the right spouse.
1. Use a red hat to generate 5 good ideas
2. observe the rules of red hat
The idea of thinking hats was developed by Edward de Bono it was six hats of different colors representing a different pattern of thinking, different from traditional logical thinking. It is parallel thinking that is useful in individual and group discussions.
The hats are 1. Blue hat: It wants one to look at the big picture and think about the goal.
2. White hat: what are the information and its fact?
3. Red Hat: It denotes intuitive or instinctive guts feelings.
4. Black hat: logical, practical, and realistic.
5. Yellow hat: logic applied to identify benefits, seeking harmony, and look at the bright side of the picture.
6. Green hat: it is a sign of creativity.
7. The seventh hat is added is a purple hat: it metamorphically denotes where the workload is? Where is the problem, it is modern technology.
The Red hat metamorphically denotes the subjective feelings, perception, emotional thinking, and intuition. The color red denotes fire, and fire has two functions it can be positively used for construction purposes like cooking getting warmth in winter, and many other religious rituals. The second function is destruction by destroying the property or converting an object into ashes. It plays with emotion either constructively or destructively.
The five good ideas using the red hat cap 1. The feeling, emotions, and intuition can sometimes result is bias emotions. To avoid the bias emotion one should not be judgmental about an individual and a situation.
2. If there is a problem and one feels that there is a dead-end to his problem control the emotion, do not come to a hasty decision.
3. Putting out feelings towards other’s motivation: It is a human tendency that one’s a perception about a person is formed it is difficult to change, to avoid this situation by putting the red cap one should avoid the feeling of perception taking over our emotions.
4. Putting forward decisions for the upcoming project; by putting the red cap once the situation, facts, ideas, and other important matters are discussed and taken into consideration one should put his emotions to see the viability of the project.
5. The other factor that can be overcome or realized would be jealousy, by putting the red cap one comes to know his feelings and internal bias, for example, if somebody's is getting a promotion and the other is jealous of his promotion it shows one is bringing his jealousy in the path other’s progress. By overcoming this feeling one has to be positive.
The rules of Red hats.
1. Express the critical thought but do not look attacking, it should look like a normal suggestion and without any biased feeling. 2. Ask for feeling: instead of guessing ask for other’s feelings. It is better to ask what they feel about a certain decision.3. Reframe the ideas: with the red hat, it allows reframing the ideas with a new point of view.4. Bring awareness by acknowledging a critical situation where the competition is higher.5. Always ready to negotiate because red is for creation and destruction, thus opt for creative work.
The hat can be used at the beginning and the end in a planned manner.
Secondly, it can be used for important emotional topics.