Question

Did you view conflict as a negative factor in a relationship? Were you surprised to discover that there were positive aspects to conflict? Why do you think most people view conflict as a negative? What can we do to make the positives of conflict work for us in our relationships?

Answer 1

Conflict arises when there is disagreement or disapproval in the way people think, behave and do things. Conflict is basically good because it would initiate a discussion, argument and finally bring more clarity and understanding between the members. I always view conflict as a positive need in a relationship to understand people and events better, so I’m not surprised to know that some people view conflict in a positive way.

Most people view conflict in a negative way because they are afraid of confronting, arguing and making things right. They are also afraid of receiving criticism and changing themselves. These people also have a negative attitude towards people and events and constantly blame others for what they are today. It’s really important to understand that difficult times will make people strong and bring people together. It’s all about staying, working and living together that makes life interesting thus understanding the difference and finding meaning in unity in diversity will make people live happily. Conflicts are those boosters that give us the perfect opportunity to understand things and people better thus improving relationships.