In: Psychology
*Read the introduction first, then read your friend's dialogue, and choose three responses from the (32) below as appropriate response to what the said:
Dealing with Drunken Friends
Whether a night ends safely for all concerned, or disastrously, often depends on what people say to each other and themselves at crucial moments in the night. The purpose of this dialogue is to give you practice and rehearsal at making life-enhancing and life-preserving comments to friends who are determined to drive home after drinking. Even if you are unsuccessful at keeping them from driving, saying things like those on the list you’ve been given would at least hopefully help you stand your ground and take care of yourself. If you can’t save others, at least save yourself. Use the responses below for each statement your friend makes, once you have used a response you may not use it again.
1. ____I want every one of us to get home safely tonight
2. ____I’m sure kids who got into accidents said the same things
3. ____I’m sure kids who got killed thought the same kinds of things
4.____I don’t want any of us to get hurt or killed driving home tonight
5.____I don’t want any of us to die on some country road tonight
6.____I’m not going to worry about what my parents might do
7.____I don’t think anything they‘d do would be that big a deal
8.____I’ll survive anything my parents could possibly do to me
9.____I’ve survived grounding before and I’ll survive it again
10.____I’m not going to let what they might do scare me into driving
11.____I’d rather my parents find out from me than from a hospital
12.____I don’t want my parents getting that call that all parents dread
13.____I won’t put my parents through what others have been through
14.____I know I’m important to them even if they don’t always show it
15.____I know no matter how upset they get, they wouldn’t want to lose me
16.____I think we blew it by not selecting a designated driver before
17.____I’m ready to take whatever’s coming to me for drinking
18.____I’d rather deal with my parents than deal with being paralyzed
19.____I don’t want to be responsible for anyone getting hurt or killed
20.____I’d rather take my chances with my parents than with an accident
21.____I don’t want to end up like kids who got hurt or killed driving
22.____I’m going to do what I think is best for us no matter what
23.____I don’t want to lose someone just to avoid getting into trouble
24.____I don’t want to end up going to someone’s funeral because of this
25.____I don’t want us to become another statistic of drunk driving
26.____I don’t want to make the same mistakes other kids have made
27.____I would never want our parents to have to identify our bodies
28.____I know I can’t make you do anything, I can only ask you to
29.____I know you can do whatever you want and I can’t stop you
30.____I don’t want to end up in an emergency room tonight
31.____I think we made a mistake by drinking when we had to drive
32.____I don’t want to make an even bigger mistake by trying to drive
Read the segment then choose 3 answers for each question
Amongst the three answers one could be the name in all the blanks, of the person you are talking to , since name has an effect on the listener as well.
1- All , please
2-see , seriously ,point is
3-look , possible is
4-you know what , reality is
5-see , please understand
6-on an honest note, truth is
7- honestly , sure is
8-surely , haha well
9-see , better will be
10-well, surely
11-favourable would be , what's better is that
12-please , try and understand
13-seriously , surely
14-see, no matters what
15-honestly , as parents
16-what , whys is it that
17-yeah, well well well
18-see, well
19-on an honest note, please
20-well, just think
21-listen, please understand
22-see, it's not about us
23-honestly, as a person
24-please , really
25-please , surely
26-listen , honestly
27-on a serious note , please understand
28-well, please listen
29-see , yes
30-see. , Please
31-well , acc. to me
32-honestly , surely