Defending the Self
How do you respond to blame? Do you justify your actions, make
an excuse, or refuse to admit any wrongdoing? Do you admit you are
wrong and apologize?
When confronted with blame, consider your relationship with the
people in the situation. How do those relationships influence your
defensive account? Your choices when defending yourself have
far-reaching consequences if mishandled. As you negotiate these
situations, the importance of politeness, saving face, and
maintaining a positive public image come...