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Article: A present for Popo by Elizabeth Wong
The child of chinese immigrants, Elizabeth Wong was born in Los Angeles. She has a master's degree in fine arts and has worked as a writer for news papers and television. She has also written several plays. In " A Present for Popo," Wong describes a beloved grandmother.
Before you read this essay, consider these questions:
Are you afraid of growing old ?
Do you think most old people in north America are treated well ?
Are they respected ? ignored ?
Are you close to anyone over sixty-five ?
Did you grow up in the close contact with a grandparent ?
Is there one person who holds your family together ?
When my Popo opened a Christmas gift, she would shake it, smell it, listen to it. She would size it up. She would open it nimbly, with all enthusiasm and delight, and even though the mittens were ugly or the blouse too small or the card obviously homemade, she would coo over it as if it were the baby Jesus.
Despite that, buying a gift for my grandmother was always problematic. Being in her late 80s, Popo didn't seem to need any more sweaters or handbags. No books certainly, as she only knew six words of English. Cosmetics might be a good idea, for she was just a wee bit vain.
But ultimately, nothing worked. "No place to put anything anyway," she used to tell me in Chinese. For in the last few years of her life, Popo had a bed in a room in a house in San Gabriel owned by one of her sons. All her belongings, her money, her very life was now co-opted and controlled by her sons and their wives. Popo's daughters had little power in this matter. This was a traditional Chinese family.
For you see, Popo had begun to forget things. Ask her about
something that happened 20 years ago, and she could recount the
details in the heartbeat of a New York minute. But it was those
niggling little everyday matters that became so troubling. She
would forget to take her heart medicine. She would forget where she
put her handbag. She would forget she talked to you just moments
before. She would count the few dollars in her billfold, over and
over again. She would ask me for the millionth time, "So when are
you going to get married?" For her own good, the family decided she
should give up her beloved one-room Chinatown flat. Popo herself
recognized she might be a danger to herself, "I think your
grandmother is going crazy," she would say.
That little flat was a bothersome place, but Popo loved it. Her
window had a view of several import-export shops below, not to
mention the grotesque plastic hanging lanterns and that nasty
loudspeaker serenading tourists with 18 hours of top-40 popular
hits.
My brother Will and I used to stand under her balcony on Mei Ling Way, shouting up, "Grandmother on the Third Floor! Grandmother on the Third Floor!" Simultaneously, the wrinkled faces of a half-dozen grannies would peek cautiously out their windows. Popo would come to the balcony and proudly claim us: "These are my grandchildren coming to take me to dim sum. " Her neighbors would cluck and sigh, "You have such good grandchildren. Not like mine."
In that cramped room of Popo's, I could see past Christmas presents. A full-wall collage of family photos that my mother and I made together and presented one year with lots of fanfare. Popo had attached additional snapshots by way of paper clips and Scotch tape. And there, on the window sill, a little terrarium to which Popo had tied a small red ribbon. "For good luck," as she gleefully pointed out the sprouting buds. "See, it's having babies."
Also, there were the utility shelves on the wall, groaning from a wide assortment of junk, stuff and whatnot. Popo was fond of salvaging discarded things. After my brother had installed the shelving, she did a little jig, then took a whisk broom and lightly swept away any naughty spirits that might be lurking on the walls. "Shoo, shoo, shoo, away with you, Mischievous Ones!" That apartment was her independence, and her pioneer spirit was everywhere in it.
Popo was my mother's mother, but she was also a second mother to me. Her death was a great blow. The last time I saw her was Christmas, 1990, when she looked hale and hearty. I thought she would live forever. Last October, at 91, she had her final heart attack. The next time I saw her, it was at her funeral.
An open casket, and there she was, with a shiny new penny poised between her lips, a silenced warrior woman. Her sons and daughters placed colorful pieces of cloth in her casket. They burned incense and paper money. A small marching band led a New Orleans-like procession through the streets of Chinatown. Popo's picture, larger than life, in a flatbed truck to survey the world of her adopted country.
This little 4-foot, 9-inch woman had been the glue of our
family. She wasn't perfect; she wasn't always even nice, but she
learned from her mistakes, and, ultimately, she forgave herself for
being human. It is a lesson of forgiveness that seems to have
eluded her own sons and daughters.
And now she is gone. And with her--the tenuous, cohesive ties of
blood and duty that bound us to family. My mother predicted that
once the distribution of what was left of Popo's estate took place,
no further words would be exchanged between Popo's children. She
was right.
But this year, six of the 27 grandchildren and two of the 18 great-grandchildren came together for a holiday feast of honey-baked ham and mashed potatoes. Not a gigantic family reunion. But I think, for now, it's the one yuletide present my grandmother might have truly enjoyed.
Merry Christmas, Popo!
Summary: A Present For Popo
In this story the author, Elizabeth Wong is talking about her lovely Popo, grandma. The author mentioned that she is very happy to receive a Christmas gift even though gift is good or not, big or small. She used to open it with care and delightful. While opening she used to smell it, shake it and listen it to the gift.
The author says that, it is difficult to buy a gift for her Popo, because she don't really know what she need and it doesn't work for her easily to give a gift for her. And her all belonging were handled and controlled by her son and his wife.
The author also mentioned that Popo, grandma was forgetful of everything. She would ask again and again of anything, she used to forget to take medicine and used to forget about her handbag where she kept. Even she herself know about it and used to say that, she is going crazy.
The author says, she, her grandmother love her flat room, even though there is many disturbances nearby. The author show a good care for her Popo, grandmother. In her grandma's room there were many past Christmas gifts, the author had mentioned. Popo was a mother of author's mother, also the author mentioned she is her second mother.
According to the author, last Christmas on 1990, was the last Christmas for the her. Her Popo's death was great blow for her because she thought that she will live forever. On October, at the age of 91, Popo was pass away because of heart attack.
The author mentioned about her grandma, she was a "silence warrior woman." Because even though she is not perfect or nice every time, she learned from her own mistakes. She forgave herself for those. Her Popo is great memories for their family. The author mentioned that, this year 6 of 27 grandchildren and 2 of 18 great-grandchildren of Popo, come together to celebrate the Christmas and the author shows the remembering of her grandma that she would be enjoying a lot and said "Merry Christmas Popo!"