Question

In referring to a genogram, define AND provide an example of a “Triangle Relationship” that can occur within a family system. Use research to support your answer.

Answer 1

A genogram is a graphic representation of a family tree that displays detailed data on relationships among individuals. We can use a genogram to gain insight into intense family relationships.

Murray Bowen, a family therapist suggested that two-person relationship is the basic unit of any emotional system in a family. However, according to him the two-person system is an unstable system in the sense that, under stress, it tends to draw in a third to stabilize, creating a three-person system of two-against-one, or two-helping-one. When the anxiety gets high enough in any one triangle, it spills over into other triangles, spreading further and further into the whole family system. Thus, triangles relationship within a family structure is formed when there is a greater degree of discomfort in a two-person relationship and expands into other relationships in the family, binding family members into a series of repetitive interactions and roles. When there is discord between two people, they commonly attempt to alleviate the discomfort by forming a triangle with a third.