Question

IBL 6: Boundaries

1. How do you know when a personal boundary is crossed?
   1. Physical boundary:
   2. Emotional boundary:
2. Why can it be hard to hold a boundary in some situations (name 3 reasons)?
3. What happens to a relationship if a person knowingly & repeatedly crosses your boundaries (consensually)?
4. Does a person automatically KNOW if they have crossed someone else’s boundary? Explain please.
5. How does it feel to hold a boundary? (or how do you imagine it would feel)

Answer 1

Dear student you have asked many queries, here I will answer few only.

How do you know when a personal boundary is crossed?

1. Physical boundary:
2. Emotional boundary:

1 a and B The relations between human beings, friends, relatives or even between states, countries regions are based on certain limits that should not be crossed in any case otherwise the results are always negative. The usurping of territories, lands or violation of boundaries often give rise to wars, battles, bloodshed etc. The physical boundaries if crossed can give rise to series of odd events and emotional boundary is not any exception because the human relations are also based on bonds and limits. There are many occasions when person knowingly or unknowingly crossed the boundaries be it in friendship or any other relations, bullying, too much criticism, backbiting may lead to boundary violations.

Why can it be hard to hold a boundary in some situations (name 3 reasons)

2 There are exceptions to the limits also because a time you are supposed to withstand against your close associates if they go astray or get involved in any evil or corruption. Let’s assume that your parents are usurping anyone's property who is poor or they are insulting any person even if he is right then the bonds don’t hold much importance what matters is your stand against the wrong, if your friend is involved in drugs and you tried to save him but your efforts didn't go positive then to save your own self you have to stay away from him even if it means heartbreak for him.

What happens to a relationship if a person knowingly & repeatedly crosses your boundaries (consensually)?

3 There is always a limit to everything and it does apply to emotions as well, if my boundaries are crossed every time then the results will be to stay away from those who hurt you because self respect and dignity should always be priority. I will maintain a gap till they mend their ways and morals.