I can not say that it is a conflict but it is a problem with
conflict features.
The problem of personal relationship: my friends are upset
with me because they want to spend more time together but I do not
have time for them, so we become distant and this has started to
worries me.
To analyze the problem, I have decided to use 5 Whys
analysis.
The problem could be broken down in two classes of whys:
First – my friends upset with me
Second – why it worries me
First set of whys analysis:
Why the problem happens:
Why do I have not time for my friends (in comparison to the
time I had before):
· I have more work load and have started to study in
UoPeople
Why I have more work load and why have I started to study in
UoPeople :
· I have more workload because I have got new job and need
time to understand all in full.
· I have to study in UoPeople because I feel that I need knew
knowledge
Why do I need time to understand new job in full, why do I
need new knowledge, why did I change the job:
· I need to understand the situation because I do not have
sector related knowledge.
· I do not have sector related knowledge because the current
sector is new for me
· I changed the job because I was not satisfied with the
sector where I was worked in
Why I was not satisfied with sector where I was worked
in
· I was not satisfied with sector I was worked in because
there was little development of myself and in sector itself
Why there was little development of myself and in the
sector:
· It is not much development in the sector due to sector
crysis
that is why I have changed the sector and has started to get
new knowledge in UoPeople
Second set of whys analysis:
Why the problem worries me:
· I feel attached to the people
Why do I feel attached to the people
· I feel attached to the people because we grown up together
and do have common memories and interests
Why do we have so much in common
· We have common interests because we were children and these
are good memories
So now there are different interests, nothing in common with
my current friends and I have to go further because I have to live
in real world and due to change of scope on interests, I have to
get different friends to have common ideas to share in my free
time.
Sounds sad but effective to allocate the future
conflict.