Question

Before you read or reread this section in your text, make a list of all of the qualities and characteristics that attract you to someone. Be honest and do not censor yourself. After you have made your list, read what psychologists have discovered about what attracts people to one another. How are these things reflected in your list? Did you learn something about why it is you view others the way you do? Can you illustrate these factors with personal experiences with attraction? Is there any aspect of attraction that you did not realize influenced you?

Answer 1

All Qualities that attract someone :

1. Become more poliate and humble

2. Respectful attitude .

3. Positivity

4. Become so much energetic .

5. Good self - awarness and presence of mind .

6. Good looking and definitely smart appraoch .

7. Good interpersonal skills .

psychologist have discover what attract other :

1. Addressing name while have conservation with others.  

2. Having good sense of humor .

3. Elegant personality .

4. Fulfilling needs of other people .

5. Ability to engaged in conversation and makes more compatible .

6. Become more trustworthy and always have genuine intention.  

These things are reflected in my list in similar way. Psychology discovered these things more systematically and theoritically where my view point based on observation and personal experience .

Yes I have learned more practically . It has found that. Everybody body have some common psychological phenomenona like good looking people easily attracts other.  

Once time , a girl was not so much pretty . So simply I try to avoid her to being in relationship where we are only become friend . But gradually her caring , honesty , devotion in relationship ,etc impressed me a lot. So these factor like empathy , emgagent in conversation , good interpersonal skills etc helps to connect with herself.

Yes , there is aspect of good looking and more show off personalities did not impressed me . If other people continuously make effort to showing off the things , it really miserable for me .