Question

Case1.A high school senior to a school counselor: “My dad told me the other night that I looked relaxed. Well, that’s a joke. I don’t feel relaxed. There’s a lull right now, because of semester break, but next semester I’m signed up for two math courses, and math really rips me up. But I need it for science since I want to go into pre-med

Empathic response.

Question probe.

Statement probe.

How might it help the client move forward?

Case 2. A 27-year-old Japanese American woman talking to a counselor about a relationship that has just ended (she speaks in a rather matter-of-fact voice): “About three weeks ago I came back from visiting my parents who live in Nevada and found a letter from my friend Gary. He said that he still loves me but that I’m just not the person for him. In the letter he thanked me for all the good times we had together these last three years. He asked me not to try to contact him because this would only make it more difficult for both of us. End of story. I guess I’ve let my world collapse. People at work have begun complaining about me. And I’ve been like a zombie most of the time.”

Empathic response.

Question probe.

Statement probe.

How might it help the client move forward?

Case 3. A married Latino man, 25 years old, is talking to a counselor about trouble with his mother-in-law: “The way I see it, she is really trying to destroy our marriage. She’s so conniving. And she’s very clever. It’s hard to catch her in what she’s doing. You know, it’s rather subtle. Well, I’ve had it! If she’s trying to destroy our marriage, she’s getting pretty close to achieving her goal.”

Empathic response.

Question probe.

Statement probe.

How might it help the client move forward?

Case 4. A Caucasian man, 45 years old, who has just lost his wife and home in a tornado, has been talking about his loss to a social worker: “This happened to a friend of mine in Kansas about ten years ago. He never recovered from it. His life just disintegrated and nobody could do anything about it. . . . It was like the end of the world for him. You never think it’s going to happen to you.”

Empathic response.

Question probe.

Statement probe.

How might it help the client move forward?

Answer 1

Case 1

Empathetic response

As a councellor , no need to panic , everything will be alright , you should focused on your work .

Question problem

Why you don't be relaxed and why are so obbssed about math ?

Statement of problem: He is totally depressed due to pressure of breakdown semester and two math course has signed more advancement in secience

Help to client :

Client should help by providing various startegy .he should learn about effective time management and develop capablity to deal with difficulties situation.he should advice for not panic about mathamatics and insist for proper practice with touch of appropriate guidence.

Empathetic responce , after carefully listining the story of women , councellor can made good interaction and provide startegy to move forward .

Problem of statement

Problem is a japanees -- American women was cheated by her friend gray in their relationship.Gray leave alone the girl .so girl is now stressed and collapsed.

solution:

CLient was betrayed by someone .he should not much worry about it .as Councellor , some suggestions can provided for moving for Ward like make client self strong and come out from depression. Try to stop listiings the gossip of others .client should understand the major causes of the problem and she should make himself more self - relient .it would be difficult to trust again someone but she should find another someone for relationship.so in this way , she can move forward.

Case-3

Empathy response : as a Councellor carefully listininng the problem of women and give some useful opinion .

Problem of statement

A women feel inferiority to broke up her mariiage relationship due to mother in law inconvenience behaviour.

Solution

As councellor, can advised that women should be more concious about her weakzone and try to improve .she need to be understand actually purpose of mother in law for doing such unethical activities. She can directly interact and openly with her regarding this matter . She needs to be more tolerance , empathetic , honest for dealing with the situation and protect marriage relationship from her monther in law

case 4

the only major solitution from recover and move for ward is ..influence and touch of religion which will lead him true path of life . He will realize the purpose of life and try to modify himself .